Somewhere between now and my last post my world has turned to shit. It seems I'm incapable of separating sex and emotion. I guess I'm just not wired that way. I fell for my fuck-buddy, and I fell hard. The strange thing is, I can't even tell you why or how. It has to be sex thing, best blow-job ever.
Anyway, my fuck-buddy, the girl I fell for is now in love with who used to be one of my best friends. AND...this friend happens to be a lesbian. Fucked up, huh? Now heart break I can deal with. I've become somewhat of an expert on the subject. If they had belts for that sort of thing I would no doubt have a very, very black one, and likely reside in a temple. But I digress. I should be able to handle this, but due to the massive amount of bullshit I've been dealing with, roommate issues, my job at the fruit loop factory, etc; my armor is thin and it hit me hard.
Did I mention I work with both of these people? Oh yeah! I don't think I have what it takes to see them together everyday at work. This has led me to the conclusion that I must leave. Things have to fall into place or I have to get out. Things show no signs of falling into place. Where am I going? I don't know. I'm on a roller coaster and I find my mind and intentions are changing frequently.
I've never seen someone come into a social circle and cause so much damage to so many people in such a short amount of time. She walked into my life with a bomb put it in my lap and blew me/us the fuck up. My friend calls her "a wrecking ball with tits". Is it all others faults? No. Some of it is mine, hell a lot of it is mine--but I just can't be asked to take another bullet for someone else's happiness, not again, not now.
And fuck Spitler and Holly for being right. They both told me what would happen and I didn't listen. Pleasures of the flesh is a hard thing to ignore though.
It's not the sex that I miss though. It's the little things: the touches, the glances, the idiosyncratic things we do without thinking, the way the rain rolls down her face, and the her eyes sparkle when she cries. It's the little things that kill.
Everyone keeps telling me that I'll find someone. While I enjoy the sentiment, I grow tired of hearing it. I've heard it all my life and it never works out. I'm growing tired and cynical. I've reached my breaking point of bullshit and I've hit bottom.
I think the worst part is that she keeps comparing me to other guys. The guys that have treated her like shit. I'm not them and she doesn't seem to understand that. I'm unlike anyone she's ever met. I'm likely unlike anyone any of you have ever met. She has me wrong. So wrong that to hear those words of comparison causes me great pain...
I have to take a positive step in my life and I don't think I can do it here.